How to be an Alpha Male

If you want to be an alpha male, instead of a beta male, you must must MUST get in touch with your masculine. Here are some steps to accomplish this:

01. Be knowledgeable about many subjects, but also be a good listener. Give your opinion and advice when asked or when it is necessary (i.e. rarely).

02. Be confidant, but never boastful. No one likes a blowhard.

03. Be debonair. Definition of debonair: confident, stylish, and charming. But don’t be a jerk about it. Learn to smile a lot!

04. Be self-assured, but not vain.

05. Be courageous, but not reckless.

06. Be goal-oriented, but not egotistical.

07. Be strong, but not overly aggressive or prone to violence.

08. Be level-headed, but not dispassionate. Take both good news and bad with the same calm resolve.

09. Be humorous, but do not act silly or immature. A classy wit goes a long way. Crass and low-brow humor is unattractive. Occasional bawdy humor can be playfully fun, but never lose control of yourself.

10. Be honest, but always exercise tactfulness. Control your words.

11. Be fun, and do not have a short temper. Anger is never charming.

12. Be clean, but don’t be afraid to get dirty if you must. Let me put it this way, you should always strive to emanate pleasant smells from your body.

13. Be emotionally centered. In other words do not be prone to emotional outbursts of any kind.

14. Be level-headed in times of crisis. Think clearly, and be reliable when problems arise. The true alpha male is at his best in troubled times.

15. Be helpful, but never nosey. Evil prevails when good men do nothing.

16. Be willing to accept and apply good advice. Never get to the point that you think you are too smart, too successful, or too old to heed wise counsel. You must ALWAYS be willing to modify your behavior for the better until the day you die.

17. Be compassionate, but not flamboyantly so. Humble compassion is true compassion. Self-serving (fake) compassion is useless.

18. Be sober. Don’t allow yourself to be subject to any substance or habit. You control your habits, not the other way around.

19. Be rigorous. Never grow accustomed to laziness or a life of ease.

20. Be physically and mentally fit. Always strive to stay in shape. A weak man cannot help himself or others, and is approaching uselessness.

Remember my son, always be charming and level-headed. Another hot-headed over-grown baby is NOT what the world needs. The world needs good men (alpha males) to be the life-blood of their communities.